Anger, aggression and bitterness are like thieves in the night who steal our ability to love and care. Is it possible to turn that negativity around and chill out so we can wish our abuser well? This may sound challenging or even absurd, but it can make life's difficulties far more tolerable.
🌞 Recognize no one harms another unless they are in pain themselves. : Ever noticed how, when you're in a good mood, it's hard for you to harm or hurt anything? But when you are in bad mood, you are more impulsive.
🌞 No one can hurt you unless you let them: When someone hurts us, we are inadvertently letting them have an emotional hold over us. Instead, if someone yells at you, let them scream; it makes them happy!
🌞 Respect yourself enough that you want to feel good: Don't respond to them with negativity, turn it around within yourself and began to wish them well.
🌞 Consider how you may have contributed to the situation: It's all too easy to point fingers and blame the perpetrator, but no difficulty is entirely one-sided. So contemplate your piece in the dialogue or what you may have done to add fuel to the fire.
🌞 Extend kindness: That doesn't mean you're like a doormat that lets others trample all over you while you lie there and take it. But it does mean letting go of negativity sooner than you might have done before so that you can replace it with compassion.
🌞 Meditate: Meditation takes the heat out of things and helps you cool off, so you don't overreact. A daily practice we use focuses on a person we may have difficulty with or have a problem with us. We hold them in our hearts and say: "May you be well! May you be happy! May all things go well for you!"
Been there, done that and I know by first-hand experience that reacting to hate and bitterness is only allowing yourself to feel bad for something you didn't do (in most cases). The best thing you can do is put yourself out of the drama and be at peace.
What do you do when someone mistreats or angers you? Comment below.
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one more thing 在 [LIVE] Apple Event 2020: One more thing. - 看板iOS - 批踢踢 ... 的推薦與評價
盡量避免錯板，所以借這篇回一下，
https://www.apple.com/tw/macbook-pro-13/
比較基準是用這台 MacBook Pro 13 吧：
4 核心第八代 i7 / 16GB / 1.7GHz / Intel Iris Plus Graphics 645。
PCHome 256GB 現在價格是 56,900，
MBP M1 同規格目前在美國價格約 USD 1,499，
台幣約 43,000 以上，價差約一萬？
其它用市售PC機型比較的部分，苦無證據，所以備註刪掉略過，
只能用舊機型 MBP 來參考。
文章代碼(AID): #1Vgu1LKm (MAC)
https://www.ptt.cc/bbs/MAC/M.1605075029.A.530.html
如果蘋果有自信能用上一代 i7 MacBook 來比較，
應該沒太大問題吧？希望不會太烙賽，
其它就要看軟體跟上來的支援度，以及 GPU 表現。
希望有滿滿 iOS App 可以用，如果能有推播更好(感覺沒有)。
Mac Mini 真的便宜很多，
散熱不是問題的話(MacBook Air M1)，
iPad Pro 其實也能應用。
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