KHÔNG NHIỀU NGƯỜI BIẾT KHOÁ HỌC CỦA MISS LAN?
Ừ, từ khi cô dừng làm video mì ăn liền nhiều lượt view lắm nhưng lại cổ xuý cho phong trào lười học, hưởng thụ.
Những thứ không mua được bằng tiền thường ít được biết đến vì giá trị thực luôn được bảo vệ bởi người thật tâm tạo ra nó. Người giàu làm từ thiện có bao giờ lên mạng la làng la xóm không? Những gì chúng ta nhìn thấy... chỉ là những gì chúng ta đang nhìn thấy.
Trong cái xã hội mà truyền thông có thể bị xuyên tạc một cách dễ dàng, nổi tiếng trong một đêm nhờ việc làm khùng làm điên trước ống kính thì con người dần mất đi tính kiên nhẫn và sự sáng suốt để nhìn ra được đâu là thật đâu là giả.
Chúng ta thường bị hấp dẫn bởi những lời nói dối nhưng làm chúng ta thoả mãn. Chúng ta không thích nghe những lời nói thật vì sợ phải đối diện với sự thật đắng cay: muốn thành công thì phải lao động và luôn luôn lao động.
NHƯNG...
Đến ăn mà người ta còn lười thì bạn nghĩ có ai thực sự muốn học một ngôn ngữ đàng hoàng chính thống. Xin được trích một đoạn trong video "This isn't Love" của Jay Shetty:
"We're so used to seeing all the headlines on the internet:
- LEARN THIS LANGUAGE IN 5 MINUTES
- GET AN IDEAL BODY IN 10 MINUTES A DAY
- BECOME A MILLIONAIRE IN 12 MONTHS
All of these sound brilliant, right? The problem is they are not real. They're not true. They're false promises. The reason why it works because it appeals to one of the most basic human desires: situational improvement without major resource investment.
Of course you can pick up a few words in another language or shed a few pounds of weights if that was your goal. Or maybe you will make a little bit of money. BUT...
REAL KNOWLEDGE, REAL AWARENESS, REAL FITNESS, REAL BUSINESS... all of these things TAKE TIME. 💔
REAL RELATIONSHIPS, REAL CONNECTION, REAL PURPOSE TAKES TIME. 💔
Naturally, the internet headlines focus on the
SHORT TERM INSTEAD OF THE LONG TERM. 💔
Because most of us would never click on something like:
LEARN A LANGUAGE IN FIVE YEARS WITH DEDICATED DAILY PRACTICE. HERE IS THE ONE HOUR WORK OUT THAT YOU NEED TO DO EVERY SINGLE DAY. IF YOU WANT TO BECOME A MILLIONAIR YOU HAVE TO GO THROUGH AT LEAST 10 FAILURES...
The important lesson is: If you want meaning, if you want purpose, if you want fulfillment... THOSE THINGS TAKE TIME!!! 💔
Giáo dục thì không thể bóp méo. Đã nói học 200 giờ sẽ giỏi, không bớt giờ nào. 😸
Đọc được đến đây thì chúc mừng bạn. Bạn thật kiên nhẫn. Người kiên nhẫn chắc chắn sẽ thành công.
_________________________.
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如果你對誰是你真正的朋友感到困惑,看看這支影片。
#朋友是什麼
#真正的朋友
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感謝快樂大學x合作夥伴 Lanyi 協助翻譯。
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你是否覺得自己的人生總是被追著跑?數位時代的快步調、社群媒體上的炫耀和比較,在科技進步的同時,人們的焦慮和痛苦指數卻不斷節節攀升。然而,在這麼多紛亂的噪音和雜訊之外,有一種值得嘗試且千古流傳的生活智慧,叫做僧人的心態。
《僧人心態》的作者是被媒體喻為「數位世代心靈導師」的傑.謝帝(Jay Shetty),他畢業於英國倫敦卡斯商學院,拒絕知名企業的工作機會,搬到印度孟買的道場當了三年的吠陀教僧人。在道場的歷練之下,他悟出人生的平靜與意義,回到英國後逐步成為最具數位影響力的思想領袖。
他將多年來在僧人生活中學到的永恆智慧,結合能應用在生活中的實踐步驟,淬鍊成這本書的內容,希望能讓我們脫離焦慮,回歸內心的平靜,活出有意義的人生。在書中,他引用許多印度吠陀教的經典觀念,穿插自己在道場的經驗和體悟,教我們擁抱僧人的心態來解決現代生活中的各種問題。
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Have you ever spent time with someone and you feel like your energy has been drained? If all that person do most of the time is to bad-mouth someone, or judge your life or discourage you from achieving what you truly want, then you're with a toxic person.
Trust me, I don't mind spending a fortune to just STAY AWAY from this type of people.
Why You Should Avoid Toxic People?
1. They will drain your positive energy
Constant negativity from them creates a very negative vibe. So you won't feel lifted or elevated with their presence in your life. Them complaining about their life, giving up easily and always blaming others will create a very bad vibe around you.
It will feel completely opposite when you're with positive people. They will elevate your energy and make you not to give up easily and ask you to keep trying when things don't go how it should be.
2. They alter your thinking
Toxic people have their way to your brain where they will make you believe that it's better to give up than to try other ways. The more you spend your time around them, the more you will start to behave like them. Basically, your attitude will be changed.
You will be prone to do the bare minimum as you don't have the energy to fight the negative vibe. As I have mentioned earlier, congratulations, your energy has been fully sucked by those toxic people.
3. They love drama
Have you seen a group of people get together and gossip about others? They are toxic! Positive people usually won't have time to ridicule or gossip about others. They will be more into knowing your progress or they will be sharing their experiences and talk about beneficial stuff than waste the time to talk bad about others.
You grow with positive people and your growth will come to a halt with toxic people.
How I identify toxic people?
Once you feel like somebody is giving you the negative vibes, pressuring you to do something you're not comfortable with, or creating too much unnecessary drama, then they are toxic,
It's time to avoid them.
Have you been with toxic people before? Comment below on your experiences!
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Apparently, stress and boredom cause you to indulge in your bad habits. I found it to be true as I always shop whenever I am stressed out.
It is a hell of habit as shopping kind of soothes me and makes me feel like I am doing something beneficial. In a way, I actually avoid thinking about that stressful moment.
But I end up wasting so much money and I don't even use most of the stuff that I bought.
How to stop bad habits?
1. Stop them from the root.
As I said my bad habit is to shop, so the root is the money. I made a budget and set a very limited amount of money to shop. So eventually I became well aware that I can't afford to shop because I am saving up for something else.
Before I did that budget, I used to blindly spend. I never actually cared to save up for anything. I always think "Oh, I would be able to manage it soon."
Only when I became mindful about my spending, I started being serious and took each spending into consideration whether it is vital or not.
2. Stop the distraction
Social media is made up of a world full of distractions and it is such eye candy to those who want to be spoilt. The number of ads I get for shopping is uncountable and the offers are so enticing that you will surely end up buying 4 mascaras from different brands at the same time when you don't even use one!
So what you do when this happens is STOP THE AD! There are buttons and settings around the ad where you can set it to " I don't want to see this". I did that to each and every ad I see about sales or offers until I got none.
The fewer sales I saw, the less I thought about SHOPPING.
3. Replace your bad habits
Some say you can't stop the bad habits, you can only replace it. Which makes a lot of sense. When you replace it, you will forget whatever you had before it. Instead of shopping, I can go to the gym or go for a walk instead. Exhaust me there, de-stress and completely distract myself.
I get an amazing body and I get to save so much money! What a winning situation right?