《玳瑚師父的看見(四)》(English version below)
THE SIGHTINGS OF MASTER DAI HU 4
在十五前,吾常光顧一間叫「翡翠上海小籠包」的中餐館。它的正對面開有一家,在日本赫赫有名的POKKA CAFE。吾,玳瑚師父,是一位懂得吃的人。而真正懂得吃的人,不會侷限於某一種菜色。中餐、西餐、日本餐、義大利餐、韓國餐、泰國餐、越南餐、印度餐等等,吾一律接納。喔!這麼多的美食當前,衣服與地上,沒有半點痕跡,可見吾的內力,著實不淺啊!(一笑)後來爲了吾的客人,有較安靜以及較舒適的環境,吾才開始踏入日本POKKA CAFE。
在這間咖啡屋,吾享用到甚有水準的夏威夷義大利麵,以及吾超愛的奶昔。單單這兩樣飲食,吾已留連忘返。也因爲這樣,專業的助理領班,見吾到來就曉得吾會點什麼。若吾沒見客人時,大多數都是自己,一個人前來用餐。助理領班與其下屬,就乘機過來與吾聊幾句。漸漸的我們就較爲熟路了,她就向吾傾訴有關這裡的經理,名不副實。雖貴爲經理,卻不以身作則的帶領其下的團隊,把這間日式咖啡座給打理好,反而遲到早退,繁忙時不見人影,愛與美眉講黃色笑話,等等。吾聽了問她難道老闆不知嗎?她告知吾日本公司不裁退職員的。吾見她懷才不遇,但卻是一個勤奮有責的好員工。於是吾就運用吾的眼力,望一望那經理一眼,然後跟她說,那經理很快就會被裁退的。事實經吾預言後不久,那經理真被公司給辭退了。
在東北地區的一間組屋單位,吾受邀來此提供問事。欲問事的並不是,女屋主本人,而是她多年的女人。吾落座於她客廳的沙發,一邊與她閒聊,一邊等她的友人回來。等了好一會兒,她的友人終於歸來。這名女屋主是女傭介紹公司的老闆娘,故家中會有幾位在培訓中的女傭。其友人問完後,吾看見女傭群中,有一位較「特別」的女傭,正對著吾微笑。因為她的「特別」,吾就立馬囑咐女老闆,一定要將這位較「特別」的女傭,留在她身邊,勿將她推介出去。女老闆當然問吾為什麼,記得吾當時告訴她說,這位女傭未來會很幫得上妳。若干年後,她命逢劫數時,身文只剩四十元,這位女傭不只陪伴她,沒有離她而去,還自掏腰包買飯給她吃呢!這些是她親口告訴吾的,她感謝吾,也終於明白,為何當初吾囑咐她,一定要將這位較「特別」的女傭,留在她身邊。
每個人的善惡,每個人的動機,每個人的未來走勢,都已「寫」在其臉上。懂得看的人,才是能稱得上察顏觀色的高手。也算是他她心通了。人的臉就好比氣象局,當一個人悲傷欲流淚之時,其臉必是陰天。當一個人要捉狂發怒時,其臉必呈現狂風暴雨、或龍捲風、或落上風、或雷霆萬軍之相。(一笑)當一個人開心快活時,其臉必是晴天,甚至是豔陽高照。當一個人在密運中,其臉必是春天。當一個人事業有成、生意賺錢之時,其臉必是夏天。當一個人滿懷心事時,其臉必是秋天。當一個人困難重重、身體有恙之時,其臉必是冬天。那位POKKA CAFE 的經理,臉色已入秋冬,因此吾狠批他即將被裁退。那位較特別的女傭,臉色呈晴天,因此吾囑咐女老闆,將她留在自己身邊。若你妳有用人之惑,玳瑚師父是你的首選。
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I used to frequent a Chinese restaurant named Crystal Jade Shanghai Xiao Long Bao about 15 years ago. Opposite this restaurant was another eatery, Pokka Cafe, a renowned restaurant in Japan. I, Master Dai Hu, am someone who knows how to eat. A person who truly knows how to eat will not restrict himself/herself to one particular cuisine. I accept all types of cuisine: Chinese, Western, Japanese, Italian, Korean, Thai, Vietnamese, Indian, etc. Wow! With such a huge spread of cuisine in front of me, yet there isn't any trace of saliva on my shirt or on the floor, this shows how strong my inner strength is! (laughs) Out of consideration for my clients, that they may have a more serene and comfortable environment, I started to patronise the Pokka Cafe of Japan.
At this cafe, I enjoyed their high-quality Hawaiian spaghetti dish and my favourite milk tea. These two dishes always have me going back for more. As such, the professional assistant captain would straightaway know my order when she saw me. When I was not meeting clients, I would dine there alone. The assistant captain and her staff would seize the chance and come over to chat. Soon, we got on more familiar terms. She then told me about the restaurant manager whom she said was not living up to his title. Despite being a manager, he did not set a good example. He failed to lead his staff and mange the restaurant well. Instead, he would come to work late, leave early, and often disappeared during the restaurant’s peak period. He also enjoyed telling dirty jokes to young pretty female staff, etc. After listening to her, I asked if the boss knew about it. She replied that it was not the culture of a Japanese company to dismiss its employees. I saw that she was not recognised for her contribution despite being a responsible and hardworking staff. Therefore I use the prowess of my sight and took a glance at the restaurant manager. Thereafter, I told the staff that the manager would soon be made redundant. The truth is, not long after my prediction, the restaurant manager indeed got the sack from the company.
I was invited to a flat unit situated in the North-eastern part of our country, to provide divination service. The session was not meant for the lady owner of the house, but for a lady friend whom she had known for many years. I was seated on the sofa, and chatting with the lady owner while waiting for her friend to arrive. We waited for some time before her friend finally came. The lady owner was the boss of a maid agency, and that explained the many maids undergoing training in her house.
When the session with her friend ended, I spotted one particularly “extraordinary” maid among the group smiling slightly at me. Because of her "extraordinariness", I immediately advised the lady owner to keep this maid by her side always and not refer her to others. Naturally, she asked me why. I remembered telling her, " This maid would be of help to you in time to come." Many years later, misfortune struck and this lady boss was left with only $40 in her possession. This maid not only stayed with her but also bought meals for the lady boss with her own money. The lady boss recounted this incident to me and was grateful for my advice. She finally understood the reason for my advice to keep this “extraordinary” maid by her side.
Our every deed, virtuous or non-virtuous, our every motive and future development, are all clearly “written” on our faces. One who knows how to read these signs can be regarded as an accomplished face reading expert. This ability is also known as having the penetrating knowledge of the mind. A human's face is like a weather station. When a person is grieving, the face shows a gloomy day. When a person is enraged, the face is stormy with hurricanes or roaring with thunder. (laughs) When When he is happy and joyful, the face will show a clear day, with even the sun riding high in the sky. When he is in a romance, the face will show signs of Spring. When he is successful in his career and his business raking in the profits, it is summer time on the face. When he is pensive and worrisome, the face becomes autumn-like. And when he is fraught with challenges and stricken by ailments, the face will manifest the winter season. The face of the Pokka Cafe’s manager was showing auras of Autumn and Winter. That was why I boldly predicted that he would lose his job soon. On the other hand, the face of the “extraordinary” maid was showing a clear day. Hence I advised the lady boss to hold on to her. Should you have doubts on who to employ, I, Master Dai Hu, am your first choice for advice!
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【開放預購】PRE-ORDER OPEN
《向善向上 2》Towards Kindness, Towards Betterment 2
心可造天堂,心可造地獄。
改命必從心起,改運必先行動。
30則真人真事的度眾故事 30 real-life deliverance stories of Master Dai Hu
全彩色的漫畫 Comics in full colour illustration
中英文翻譯 In both English & Mandarin
192頁 192 pages
此書將於2018年11月底印刷完畢,目前開放預購,預計12月15日之前以Smartpac寄出 (本地郵寄),屆時也會在台灣金石堂書局同步上架。價格大眾化,包涵全球運送,無需再付郵資。
歡迎大家踴躍支持,人手一冊,也可將此書贈送給鄉親父老、親朋好友,帶領他們向善向上,迎接更美好的未來!
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The mind can create Heaven. It can also create Hell.
Transformation of your destiny begins from your mind.
Transformation of your luck begins from taking action.
My new book should reach the shores of Singapore in 1st week of December 2018. Pre-order is now open and the books are estimated to be mailed out through Smartpac, by 15 December. At the same time, it will be on the shelves of Taiwan KingStone bookshops.
The economical price includes global delivery (Smartpac mailing for Singapore addressees, registered mail for overseas mailing).
Looking forward to your enthusiastic support! May everybody has a copy and gift copies of this virtuous book to your family and friends and together, embrace a beautiful future!
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Something I would want to share with everyone :)
The cockroach theory for self development by Sundar Pichai .
"At a restaurant, a cockroach suddenly flew from somewhere and sat on a lady.
She started screaming out of fear.
With a panic stricken face and trembling voice, she started jumping, with both her hands desperately trying to get rid of the cockroach.
Her reaction was contagious, as everyone in her group also got panicky.
The lady finally managed to push the cockroach away but ...it landed on another lady in the group.
Now, it was the turn of the other lady in the group to continue the drama.
The waiter rushed forward to their rescue.
In the relay of throwing, the cockroach next fell upon the waiter.
The waiter stood firm, composed himself and observed the behavior of the cockroach on his shirt.
When he was confident enough, he grabbed it with his fingers and threw it out of the restaurant.
Sipping my coffee and watching the amusement, the antenna of my mind picked up a few thoughts and started wondering, was the cockroach responsible for their histrionic behavior?
If so, then why was the waiter not disturbed?
He handled it near to perfection, without any chaos.
It is not the cockroach, but the inability of those people to handle the disturbance caused by the cockroach, that disturbed the ladies.
I realized that, it is not the shouting of my father or my boss or my wife that disturbs me, but it's my inability to handle the disturbances caused by their shouting that disturbs me.
It's not the traffic jams on the road that disturbs me, but my inability to handle the disturbance caused by the traffic jam that disturbs me.
More than the problem, it's my reaction to the problem that creates chaos in my life.
Lessons learnt from the story:
I understood, I should not react in life.
I should always respond.
The women reacted, whereas the waiter responded.
Reactions are always instinctive whereas responses are always well thought of.
A beautiful way to understand............LIFE.
Person who is HAPPY is not because Everything is RIGHT in his Life..
He is HAPPY because his Attitude towards Everything in his Life is Right..!!"
:)
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5 years and 7 months in Vietnam.
I wish I could live there longer, but in order for me to have the future that I want, I need to change the direction of my life and leave.
First, I have been living off and using the money I have made from teaching in order to grow my channel by constantly producing videos. It was an investment that hasn’t had much financial rewards, but I have gained priceless friendships and experiences. Everything happens for a reason. This lifestyle has been possible for the past few years when I decided to focus more on YouTube full time thing. However, it just hasn’t worked out as I thought it would. YouTube earnings are just too low. Other business ventures designed to keep the YouTube channel functioning has not been successful. I am not very good at business. T-shirts and tour endorsements have not been doing well and I refuse to be too commercialized on my channel and try to sell too many things because it takes away from my artistic commitments. Remember, I did YouTube for fun and to share moments with my friends and family. I want to return to those days where it was a hobby for me.
Second, my parents are getting older and so am I. As an only son, I have to own up to certain responsibilities and I cannot live a life and in a place that constantly worries my mother. Despite everything that I have shown and proven about how modern and safe Vietnam can be, even after hundreds and hundreds of videos of Vietnam, my mother still cannot be convinced. I am her only son after all. So in her eyes, anywhere but Vietnam, which is fine. Easing her worry would make her happier. Plus, with the recent deaths of my grandfather, cousin’s husband, and my uncle, it made me realize more than ever that reconnecting with my parents when I do have the chance is a smart idea.
Third, I am obsessed with progress. I want to develop myself professionally further. I want to obtain a master’s degree, I want to try background acting, I want to gain the skills that would make me a better well rounded individual and leaving Vietnam would give me different perspectives. I loved teaching and value education dearly. If the situation was right for me and conditions were more proper, I wouldn’t mind returning to it one day- but not in Vietnam. I’ve taught in Vietnam already. Change is good. And I know you guys think that I have an amazing dream life, and I really think so too, but it just wasn’t sustainable enough for me to risk my 30s unless something major happens. I know America or Europe might be boring, but it’s not to me. Not yet at least.
But, the bottom line is, I’ve done it. I’ve traveled extensively in Vietnam and have brought you so many new and familiar places. I’m proud of that. I’m proud that I was committed and passionate to something with vigor. Vietnam just wasn’t an experience for me. It was my life. I am so happy to have been able to share parts of my life through cinematography with you guys. Thank you for caring about me and if you hate my guts, then I still hope these videos over the years have been at least a little bit valuable to you as they have been to me and my life.
I am incredibly sorry if this news makes anyone feel disappointed. It was not an easy decision to make and again, I am so sorry. I still want to make videos as a hobby and not as a job. After so many years and almost two years of almost full time work, it just isn’t where I need it to be. So instead of riding the ship until it sinks or become stale, I rather change course. I haven’t been able to do that for myself now yet, so I want to pivot and change. I will try my best to release as many videos as possible moving forward because there is still a lot of great Vietnam related content backed up and waiting to be edited. However, in the future if I cannot consistently release videos- weekly or twice a month or something, then I will end my Patreon and no longer accept contributions for videos….Again, thank you to everyone who supported me on Patreon. Every dollar goes back to video creating. I have tried my best to keep doing this for as long as I can, but it is time for me to pivot. Not quit, pivot. Stay tuned many more videos coming your way! You don’t want to miss out!
I will also be in Italy in a few days. If anyone is in Europe, especially anywhere in Eastern Europe and can host me or just meet up and share stories with me, please reply back to this. The same goes for anyone in America as well. I will try to visit as many American cities as possible to understand America and Canada a lot more. If anyone can offer me a couch or even a floor, I would be much appreciative of that.
If there’s any questions or concerns, feel free to write me. Thank you again for your support. This is a very sad, scary, but exciting time for me and I sincerely appreciate you guys being a part of my life.
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Hello my little red pockets!!!
So I got back home from a late family dinner and thought I'll show you guys how I remove my makeup. I'll be sharing the products I use and also my makeup removal techniques. Relax and wind down from a busy night with me and let's enjoy our casual evening together tehee.
Makeup hygiene is one of the most important aspects in the world of makeup and skincare. It doesn't matter how amazing your skincare regime is- if you don't remove your makeup properly -- your skin is going to suffer with breakouts.
Most people see makeup removal as a boring chore but why not try to ENJOY it? Instead of harsh scrubbing the eyes (irritating them and inviting premature wrinkles), INDULGE yourself in the process of clean refreshed skin.
When I know my skin is nice and clean, I sleep better and wake up to a fresher complexion. THEN you can go to bed with a peace of mind ^_^v
I'll be writing a post on Bubzbeauty.com on the makeup removing products I use. I'll write it first thing in the morning. I just got home from staying at my parents place so I'm a bit tired x_X
Good night world!! Sweet dreams!
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Ppps. Haha count how many times I said ok... I'm sorry x_x
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