【一支小雨傘】One Little Umbrella
(English writing below)
我人生中的狂風暴雨，都有他打著傘陪我走過。
以前還沒嫁時，三兩頭都會被媽媽打，都是他在凌晨時分睡眼矇矓地聽我在電話中哭訴。
以前我胃痛成疾，他買了很多巧克力、麥片、胃痛藥，放在一個小包，要我帶出國。
他到現在還是一樣天天打理我的飲食。有他在，我三餐固定。我少吃蝦，因為有一次被蝦殼割傷，後來他知道了，就為我剝。
以前我問他，會不會不喜歡我當空姐。他說，他等著和我結婚能有免費機票去利物浦看球。
後來，我問他會不會不喜歡我當風水師。他說不會，他覺得很有趣，而且結合佛法來渡眾生，這樣的工作很有意義。
我能夠無顧慮地站在大眾前，因為背後一直有他......幫忙做家務。 😄
我那支影片被放在男性論壇時，我第一個想到的人就是他。
我把論壇的嘰嘰歪歪截圖發給他。他還在工作，卻立馬就打電話給我。
他電話裡頭的第一句話：「你OK嗎？」
我問他會不會不喜歡我講這類的課題，而引來這些麻煩？
他說不會，因為我是在利生，沒有在做花枝招展的事情。他也知道，我和男客人之間從不搞曖昧。
我問他如果他家人看到了，不喜歡我如此拋頭露面，引來這些男人的批評，他會不會阻止我？
他說不會，他會告訴他們我做什麼，他都知道，他都同意，叫我不要怕。
結婚前，他說過不會阻止我做我喜歡的事情。
結婚後，他依然不變初衷。
到現在，如果我有心事，無論他工作多累，他依然會半夢半醒地聽我傾訴。
我一生好像都過得很另類，很反傳統，沒有像一般新加坡女生的生活格式。我常常也覺得自己好像是個怪胎，做著別人嗤之以鼻的事。
可他從頭到尾，從來沒有嫌棄我，沒有退縮過，處處包容我，體恤我。
我問他，與我結婚會辛苦嗎？
他說，不會，我沒有發脾氣時，一切都很美好，只是我好像長不大的猴子，但這也是這婚姻的樂趣。他說幸好我們沒有孩子，要不然家裡那麽多隻猴子，我一定就是那個猴頭老大，帶著小猴子們一起瘋癲，他就會是那個厭世的爸爸。
他叫我無需拿我們的婚姻和別人比。他就是因為我不一樣，才會娶我。
這樣的婚姻，我想應該可以走很久吧～
老公，結婚十四週年快樂。❤️
01.01.2006
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In the many thunderstorms of my life, he is always with by my side with an open umbrella.
Before we got married, whenever I was thrashed by my Mum, he would always be on the other end of the line, barely awake, listening to my sobs, at midnight hours.
I used to have bad gastric bouts, so he would pack lots of chocolates, instant oats, antacids into a small pouch and tell me to bring it overseas.
Till today, he is still taking charge of my meals. With him around, I have regular meals.
I do not like to peel prawns for once, my fingers got cut by a prawn shell. So all these years, he would peel for me voluntarily.
Once I asked him, if he minded me being an air stewardess. He replied, that he was looking forward to marrying me so that he would get a free air ticket to watch his Liverpool team play.
Later on, I asked him if he minded me being a Feng Shui practitioner. He said no. He thought that it was interesting and with me combining it with Dharma, it was a meaningful job to bring hope to people.
The reason why I can stand in front of everyone without any worry is because of him.... helping out with the chores at home 😁
When that Youtube video of mine: https://youtu.be/lPH26j2XQGw, became the subject of a “heated” discussion in some men's forums, the first person I thought of was him.
I sent him screenshots of the discussion thread. He was at work yet he called me immediately.
His first words were “Are you OK?”
I asked him if he disliked the subject I spoke about in the video and attracted these troubles?
He said he did not mind because I was benefiting others, and did not behave flirtatiously in the video. He also knew there was no hanky panky between my male clients and I.
I asked him if his family got to see this video and disliked these unwanted attention, would he stop me?
He said no, and that he would explain to his family that he was aware of what I did and gave his full blessings to my work. He asked me to have no fear.
Before marriage, he told me he would not stop me from pursuing my dreams. After marriage, his words still hold true.
Till now, when I am troubled, he would still make the effort to hear me out, despite being in a drowsy state.
My whole life has been unconventional, bordering on the eccentric, unlike the lifestyle of most Singaporean ladies. I often think I am an oddball, doing things that most people would scoff at.
Yet since the beginning till now, he did not once back down, but showered me with understanding and consideration.
I ask him if being married to me was tough for him.
He said no. When I’m not in a foul temper, things are beautiful. I am like a monkey who never grows up, but this is also the uniqueness of our marriage. He said he was glad that we didn't have children. Otherwise, with so many monkeys in the home, I would be that Monkey King doing crazy things with all the little monkeys and he would be that frantic papa trying to pull everything together for a sane household.
He told me there is no need for me to compare our marriage with others'. He married me because I was different.
Well, I guess this kind of marriage can probably go a long way.
Cubby, Happy 14th Anniversary!
01.01.2006
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