敬 自由/ 歡歡與小黃
樂手及知名YouTuber歡歡,這幾年不論感情是否順利,都勇敢地將這些故事公開讓大家知道,而這讓他們也成為台灣LGBT+年輕族群的指標人物。台灣在2019年通過同婚專法後,歡歡與她前任是第一批結婚的同性伴侶,雖然月有陰晴圓缺、人有悲歡離合,但就像其他異性伴侶一樣,歡歡並不隱藏過去。
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現在,我們很高興歡歡的感情又再次圓滿,外交部今年聯合國推案影片《敬 自由》中,邀請歡歡及她現任伴侶小黃講出他們對台灣婚姻平權的想法:
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『如果我們都希望一個更好的世界到來
至少更多的愛要能夠被自由地對待
台灣即使是亞洲第一個(同性婚姻合法國家)
也還是有太多美好的故事,是過去不被認同的秘密
其實我們的相處不會因為法案通過有什麼改變
但心裡真的踏實好多
不再需要更多勇氣就可以在陽光下相愛,這樣很好』
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若聯合國的重要任務之一是要讓國家尊重人民的權利
台灣的夥伴價值,值得聯合國重視。
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To Freedom / Huan-huan and Xiaohuang
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Musician and YouTuber Huan-huan has bravely put her love life in the spotlight over the last few years, warts and all, serving as a role model to young LGBT+ people in #Taiwan. She and her former partner were one of the first same-sex couples to get married after the legislation passed in Taiwan. She didn’t cower from showing us that, just like straight couples, not every relationship is built to last, however.
We’re happy to see that she’s moved on, and we featured Huan-huan and her current partner Xiaohuang in our promotional short for #UNGA76. In her own words:
“If we’re all hoping for a better world, then people should be free to love in more ways! Even if Taiwan was first in Asia to legalize same-sex marriage, too many beautiful stories in the past were left unsung and forced into secrecy. Our relationships won’t change with the passing of the law, but it offers a sense of security and it takes less courage now to love in the open. This is good.”
If the UN states part of its mission as encouraging countries around the world to respect the rights of their people, Taiwan's vision of global partnership can serve as a valuable reference.
#UNGA76
#HearTaiwan
#WorkingTogether
#FreedomForAll
#UNGlobalGoals
#TaiwanCanHelp
#RespectTheRightsOfPeople
#ReducedInequalities
#MyTaiwanMyPride
同時也有7部Youtube影片,追蹤數超過12萬的網紅Lil Brazil,也在其Youtube影片中提到,Marriage life is the best thing ever!! (call reinforcements! she forced me to write this..) Dont forget to follow my IG: Guignobrega - I hope you guy...
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forced marriage 在 Facebook 的最佳解答
Be Who You Are, Not What Others Want You To Be!❤
Why are you single? When are you going to get married? When are you having kids? Why you don't have kids? Why is she/he divorced? What happened to them? Why are they like that? Why and why and why people like to ask these insensitive questions, being prejudice, stereotyping, speculates, gossips, and make inappropriate judgments.
How can you ask something that someone can't 100% control, just like death? Some things are unknown, it's like asking, when are you going to die? It's common sense. If you don't know this answer, means you won't know the exact why for such questions.
When someone is single by choice or it's not just the right time for them, let it be. So what if that person wants to be or will be single forever? It may be better for the person than being with the wrong partner for the rest of the person's life. You don't meddle with God's plan or even someone's choices. You can't force people to get into relationships, what's more marriage. If it is forced, how can a marriage be happy and whole? Love is a huge topic. Again it's not just about relationships and marriage.
People should not pretend to be stupid, play dumb, needy, spoiled, or fake just to attract/be with a life partner. Women and men should have their own intelligence, personality, independence, and truthfulness in life. We want to be real and genuine, and if someone wants us to be part of their life, it's better for them to know the real us from the get-go. Not presenting a false front.
A healthy relationship should be two individuals who love and care for each other, support, motivate, respect, be kind, honest, loyal, help, guide, communicate well, listen and give the very best to each other, by also being the best version of themselves. Not one person should be superior to the other or vice versa. If you feel forced and put yourself down for another person, you are probably in the wrong relationship.
Put aside status, education level, salary, or position in career, a partner and a healthy relationship should be side by side, be supportive, help each other, understand each other strengths and weaknesses, able to give and take/compromise, and open to learning from each other when it comes to marriage or any relationship.
A woman's or man's characteristics for example being soft or strong, and men prefer soft/more feminine women, and women who are less intelligent/educated than them, should not be generalized. Some men admire women who are intelligent/educated, strong, and independent and women have their preferences too. Different people are attracted to different traits. No one size fits all.
No one should pretend to be less than she/he is for the opposite partner to feel desirable or dominant. If a person desperately and constantly trying to boost their ego, be dominant or prove power especially in a relationship, this may lead to negative behavioral patterns and impacts such as emotional instability, harassment, abuse, bullying, verbal and physical violence, unhappiness, and depression.
We are all individuals in the end and have our differences. As a human being, one of the goals in life is trying to be better than we were yesterday. Trying to change ourselves for the sake of pleasing someone and pretending just to make someone feel happy or superior is not healthy and can jeopardize our own mental health and also the relationship in the long run.
If we want to change something, for example, I want to be more fitter, healthier, happier, smarter, financially independent, and so forth, it is for ourselves (without being selfish or self-absorbed). If we take care of ourselves first then we can take care of others better. Do for yourself and the motivation will be sustainable than doing for other people.
Respect and love yourself. Respect the people around you. Then we should not be degrading or intimidate anyone. This will make you a better person. We attract what we are.
Life is unique, so does human beings. Life itself is bigger than getting married, having kids, make tons of money, and so forth. This is the typical life cycles, stages and goals we all have learned in our life. The strong pressures in society dictate what is better and not just because that's what it is for the past generations have been. The pressure to fit in with society's standards and expectations is also there.
As a society and individual, let's understand deeper that not everyone will have the same life cycles and even life goals. There are things we can control and can't control. Not everything that is good for you is going to be good for other people. Having or not having something can be a blessing and sometimes only God knows why.
In life, some may walk their path of life and make choices completely different from us and that's perfectly fine. We all have our own unique journey and that makes us different, and we can use that differences to make life better for ourselves and the life of others.
Let this sink in.
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forced marriage 在 Facebook 的最佳解答
Thank you @jessurlichs_writer
for always describing so well these words that would never come, for using your words to so aptly describe how i feel.
@deon.woo i love us. I loved u before Layla, i love u more after. In a different way, in a different expression. It made us stronger, it made us stand together more as a team, it forced us to see things from one another's perspective. Sometimes in frustration, words fail us. But i know and i trust you're never far. Sometimes i feel like you need to play catch up in this parenthood, but i know you're always trying. Thank you for still being so generous with our compliments and affection. I love you.
"Dear Husband,
We don’t have a lot of time for just us
but we have our little hour.
In the evenings
Sometimes it’s less
Sometimes it’s more
It all becomes silent, apart from the humming fridge
Or the dishes screaming at us
Or our bed that calls for sleep
I know the day is a freight train through our brains and our eyes are tired.
And our love is quiet.
I don’t need all the things,
Like flowers, or jewellery...
Just how you look at me in my dressing gown
that really needs a wash.
Or the last piece of chocolate.
Or how you seem so taken when I tell you
‘I love you’
like it’s the first time you’ve heard it.
Like you see me.
Like I see you and not all the tasks I need you to do.
While the extension of our love rests down the hallway,
let’s cuddle up.
Let’s not decide on a movie.
Let’s say everything
And nothing.
Until one of us yawns
Until one of them needs us
Let’s just be us
The old and the new.
For our little hour."
📸@kellyandher_t
#sheilaloveherlife #wearethewoosim #SSmotherhoodjourney #parenthood #motherhood #marriage
forced marriage 在 Lil Brazil Youtube 的最佳解答
Marriage life is the best thing ever!! (call reinforcements! she forced me to write this..)
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forced marriage 在 SoImJenn Youtube 的最佳解答
Auntie and Ungker Siow was forced to go couples counselling to try and reconcile their marriage. This is a story of how they open up for the very first time and ended up getting a divorce any way.
Also, special thanks to Justin Lee (http://www.instagram.com/justinlmk) for being so sporting, funny and super spontaneous!
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forced marriage 在 serpentza Youtube 的最讚貼文
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