เด็กแต่ละคนเกิดมามีพื้นฐานอารมณ์(Temperament)แตกต่างกัน แบ่งเป็น4กลุ่มใหญ่ๆ
1. เด็กเลี้ยงง่าย (Easy Child) พบได้ราว 40% คือเด็กที่มีอารมณ์และการตอบรับต่อสิ่งรอบตัวค่อนข้างดี ปรับตัวเข้ากับสถานการณ์ใหม่ได้ง่าย มักจะมีอารมณ์ดี ไม่ค่อยงอแง กิน นอนง่าย ขับถ่ายเป็นเวลา
2. เด็กเลี้ยงยาก (Difficult Child) พบได้ราว 10% คือเด็กที่ปรับตัวยากมากเป็นพิเศษและมักจะตอบสนองต่อสิ่งรอบตัวในเชิงลบ เช่น เจ้าอารมณ์ ขี้โวยวาย มักจะกิน นอน ขับถ่ายไม่เป็นเวลา คาดเดายาก
3. เด็กปรับตัวช้า (Slow To Warm Up) พบได้ราว 15% คือเด็กที่ตอบสนองต่อสิ่งรอบตัวได้ช้า ต้องใช้เวลาในการปรับตัว แต่ไม่เป็นไปในเชิงลบ ส่วนใหญ่จะกิน นอน ขับถ่ายเป็นเวลา อารมณ์ดี แต่มีอารมณ์อ่อนไหว ชอบทำอะไรแบบค่อยเป็นค่อยไป
4. เด็กที่มีลักษณะผสม (Mixed Type) พบได้ราว 35% คือเด็กที่มีหลาย ๆ ลักษณะปนกัน
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同時也有1部Youtube影片,追蹤數超過3萬的網紅POPA Channel,也在其Youtube影片中提到,家中有多過一個小朋友的家長,應該不難發現,即使是「同一條腸」出來,兩個孩子的脾性也可以南轅北轍。如果說交朋友同拍拖也是「人夾人」,那父母教養小朋友會唔會也一樣?我們經常說學校的老師要有教無類,還要因材施教;其實家長亦一樣,但我們是否懂得如何了解孩子的特質? 參考資料 C. (2012, July...
child temperament 在 謙預 Qianyu.sg Facebook 的最佳貼文
【孩童風水貼士 - 有眼睛的它們】CHILDREN’S FENG SHUI TIPS
(English writing below)
我的Watsons免費贈品。
怎麼現在連🥑也長👀了?
人類把那麼多動物和蔬菜水果「可愛化」,是我們人類越來越孤獨、有壓力,需要這些毛絨絨的玩具來解壓,還是做生意的人看準人們的弱點?
奉勸家長們不要給孩子過多有眼睛的玩具。
要不然,你與你的配偶花錢,還要活活受孩子的脾氣。
可愛的東西,不一定就是好的。不要被它們賣萌的相給誤導了。你家不是迪斯尼樂園,而且玩具永遠不能夠替代父母來陪伴孩子。
育兒不容易,而一般新加坡人更是有兩個孩子,那是兩倍的「瘋狂」。😄
所以做父母的,要聰明一點,要懂得用風水保障自己「精神正常」、「財務健康」、「婚姻美滿」的當兒,也要能夠給孩子一個心靈健康的環境來茁壯成長。
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My free gift from Watsons.
Not sure why avocados have eyes now but advising all parents: don’t jam your children’s rooms with toys that have eyes.
Or you and your spouse will be at the mercy of your children’s bad temperament, despite spending so much money.
Things that look cute are not always the best. Don't get sucked into the whole cutesy facade. Your home is not a Disneyland and toys can never replace parents to accompany your children.
It's not easy to raise a child. And most Singaporeans have two. That's double the craziness. So all the more, as parents, you should know how to use Feng Shui to protect your own sanity, secure your wealth growth, bless your own marriage and at the same time, provide your children with a healthy mental and emotional environment to grow up in.
child temperament 在 羅比媽的育兒與實驗廚房 Facebook 的最讚貼文
今天看到一則分享
好溫暖、好勵志
獻給正在跌倒、或是即將跌倒的每一位朋友
(偷偷說,版主歌聲好美❤️)
最震撼的一課---美國教室。(English Version below)
星期六早上的芭蕾課在接近尾聲的時候,老師要大家分組一起旋轉、跳躍,以優雅的舞姿穿越教室。一組接著一組,跟著優美的古典樂拍子,無論如何都要面帶笑容、華麗向前。課堂上充滿了各式各樣的學生,8歲金髮女孩、10歲中國裔女孩、12歲南亞裔女孩、23歲韓國女孩、27歲非裔女孩、29歲台妹我本人、35歲金髮男同學、40歲紅髮氣質辣媽、開心慈祥的老太太...等。而老師被稱為「派翠莎女士」則是我所見過學識最淵博、身體超菁壯、經驗特豐富、非常戲劇化、不可思議的幽默、又超級愛八卦的一位六十幾歲金髮女人,習舞超過50年,每天堅持教課六∼八小時。
在最後一組轉圈的時候,那位紅髮辣媽一時失去平衡而跌坐在地,撞出了很大的碰地一聲。她臉紅的攤攤手、難為情的一笑,擺出無可奈何的表情。而我則是立刻別過頭去,不好意思和她對到眼,因為不確定該用什麼樣的表情反應。
這時老師邊搓著雙手、邊喜孜孜地走過來對著她菁英技巧班的女孩們叫道:女孩們,在我們高級技巧班上要是有同學跌倒了我們該怎麼做呢?
這時所有年紀低於16的女孩們一起開心的拍手鼓舞起來,投以愛慕的眼光。
派翠莎女士:沒錯! 我們要拍手叫好,大家一起來! 鼓掌!!
全場一起對著那位跌倒又站起來了的辣媽微笑拍手。
派翠莎女士接著:然後這個時候呢,老師會走到其他女孩們前面,對著著他們說...
邊走邊演,對著班上最努力、最進階的一位美麗女孩,並指著辣媽說:她試過了。她勇於嘗試,冒著可能會摔倒的風險,嘗試更難的動作,為了變得更好、追求進步。
再指著其他的女孩們, 一個個問道: 你們為什麼都不去摔倒? 為什麼不去嘗試? 為什麼不敢冒險? 大家都應該向她學習,我們一起謝謝她這麼認真!
我差點淚崩。
瞬間明白了那些美國同學們臉上一直以來有的那種自信的表情從何而來。那種不管別人眼光、不怕摔倒、不怕失敗、只一心追求自己當下的努力足不足夠的每一個時刻,因為只有自己的努力是重要的,其他什麼都不值得花心思考慮。摔倒表示你在嘗試,嘗試表示你離進步更近,而感到舒服並不會讓你往前任何一點。
我好希望我小時候摔倒的時候有人這樣激勵我,並把它當成一個好的教育機會,讓大家一起更勇於嘗試。不過一切都還不遲,這是我來美國三年學到最震撼的一課。對了,再過兩天就三週年了。只想和大家分享一下,就這樣。
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The most shocking lesson - the American classroom.
At the end of the ballet class on Saturday morning, the teacher asked everyone to spin, jump, and dance through the classroom elegantly. One group after another, following the beautiful classical music tempo, no matter what happens, always smiling, and looking fabulous. The class is full of all kinds of students, 8 year old blonde girl, 10 year old Chinese american girl, 12 year old South Asian american girl, 23 year old Korean girl, 27 year old African american girl, 29 year old Taiwanese moi, 35 years old blonde male classmate, 40-year-oldish red-haired temperament hot mom, happy ladies in their fifties ...etc. The teacher is called "Ms. Patricia", who is a sixty-something blonde, the most knowledgeable woman I have seen with super-strong body, the most experienced in teaching, very dramatic, incredibly humorous, and girl, she loves to gossip. She has also been practicing ballet for more than 50 years, and insisting on teaching for six to eight hours a day.
While the very last group was finishing up their turns, the red-haired hot mom lost her balance and fell to the floor, making a bump. She blushed, and smiled a little embarrassed, making this "Voila" gesture, and then stood up. On the other hand I felt a little embarrassed for her, so I smiled nervously and soon turned my head away because I wasn't sure what kind of expression I should've been reacting.
At this time, the teacher walked over, rubbing her both hands together, looking entertained and glanced at the girls in her elite class. She shouted: Girls, what do we do when someone falls in our tech class?
All the girls under the age of 16 started to clap their hands and show genuine admiration.
Ms. Patricia: That's right! We clap! Everyone come together! Applaud!!
The audience applauded and cheered for the hot mom who stood up after she fell.
Ms. Patricia went on: Usually at this time, the teacher will go to the other girls and say...
Acting while walking over to a beautiful girl who is the most advanced in the class, and pointed to the hot mom and said: she tried. She dared to try, risking the possibility of falling, trying harder moves, in order to become better and making more progress.
Then she pointed to other girls, one by one, asking: Why don't you fall? Why don't you try? Why not taking risks? Everyone should learn from her, and we thank her for trying so hard!
I almost burst into tears.
I instantly understood where the confident expressions that have always been on the faces of American classmates came from. Every single moment, doesn't matter what other people think, do not be afraid of falling, not afraid of failure, and only try to focus on this moment of effort, are you doing enough? Because only your effort is important, and nothing else is worth worrying. Falling means you are trying, trying means that you are closer to progress, and feeling comfortable doesn't let you go any further.
I wished that someone had said something like this to motivate me when I was a child who fell hard and using it as a good educational opportunity to encourage everyone else to try. But nothing is ever too late, this is the most shocking lesson (in the best way) I have learned in the United States after almost three years. By the way, in the next couple of days it'd be three years since I moved from home.
Just wanted to share with you, this.
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child temperament 在 POPA Channel Youtube 的最讚貼文
家中有多過一個小朋友的家長,應該不難發現,即使是「同一條腸」出來,兩個孩子的脾性也可以南轅北轍。如果說交朋友同拍拖也是「人夾人」,那父母教養小朋友會唔會也一樣?我們經常說學校的老師要有教無類,還要因材施教;其實家長亦一樣,但我們是否懂得如何了解孩子的特質?
參考資料
C. (2012, July 02). Experts say a child's inborn temperament can explain a lot about parenting conflicts. Retrieved from Huff Post
How to Understand Your Child's Temperament. (2009). Retrieved from Healthy Children
Oliker, D. M. (2013, December 31). Lasting Effects of a Goodness-or Poorness-of-Fit. Retrieved from Psychology Today
Sears, W., & Sears, M. (2009). The fussy baby book: Parenting your high-need child from birth to five. London: Harper Thorsons.
Shaffer, D. R. (2009). Social and personality development. Belmont, CA: Wadsworth/Cengage Learning.
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高淑芬(2005)。兒童氣質與因材施教。臺北市政府衛生局。
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