Ayah Buat.. Anak Ikut.. Mak Jadi Mangsa.
Saya perhati je gelagat pasangan yang baru kahwin ni. Makan isteri hidangkan. Lepas makan pinggan tinggal atas meja terus keluar hisap rokok. Si isteri senyum je ambil pinggan bawa ke sinki dan cuci. So sweet isteri layan suami macam raja.
Ketika belum ada anak situasi begini memang nampak sweet tapi lepas dah ada anak tabiat begini kena kurangkan.
Anak-anak belum pandai menilai. Jadinya apa sahaja yang dia lihat dia akan tiru. Termasuklah cara ayah melayan mak, dan cara mak melayan ayah. Anak akan tiru bulat bulat!
Takut mak jadi mangsa bulian anak-anak.
Yalah, mana tak kena buli kalau anak-anak makan kena di layan setiap seorang, kalau anak seorang ok lagi tapi kalau anak 3 4 5 orang? Tekanan si mak nak handle pelbagai ragam anak.
Lebih ditakuti ialah bila anak tak pandai langsung nak menolong mak. Tak menolong mak memasak, pinggan kotor tinggal je dalam sinki, kerja rumah semua mak seorang yang buat.
Mak dah macam bibik, kerja nak layan kehendak suami dan anak-anak.
Mak rajin atau malas bukan isunya, yang penting sekarang kita kena mengajar anak ringan tulang dan adab sejak kecil.
Supaya dah besar nanti diorang tak menyusahkan pasangan. Terutamanya anak lelaki!
Anak lelaki akan jadi imam keluarga satu hari nanti. Kalau imam dalam solat, bacaan kena betul, tertib solat kena betul, semua berkaitan solat kena sempurna.
Begitu juga sebagai imam keluarga. Suami atau ayah mesti tunjukkan teladan yang baik pada isteri dan anak-anak, beri didikan yang terbaik dan kena jadi pemimpin yang boleh di harapkan. Barulah terbina keluarga sempurna.
Kahwin bukan tempat untuk orang yang malas atau rajin.
Kahwin hanya untuk orang yang boleh bekerjasama dan sanggup susah senang bersama.
Nak sweet biarlah sweet sama-sama. Isteri layan suami macam raja, suami layanlah isteri macam permaisuri. Baru adil.
Kredit: Mohd Fhais
Dad Made.. Child Follows.. Mom Becomes The Victim.
I'm observing the behavior of this newly married couple. Eating wife and serving. After eating plates, left on the table, immediately went out to smoke cigarettes. The wife is smiling and taking the dishes to the sink and wash. So sweet wife treat husband like king.
When you don't have a child, this situation looks sweet, but after having a child, you have to reduce this habit.
Kids don't know how to judge. So everything he sees he will imitate. Including the way dad treats mom, and the way mom treats dad. Child will imitate round round!
Afraid that mom will become the victim of children's bulian.
Yes, it's okay if the children eat it must be entertained by each person, if the child is still okay but if the child is 3 4 5 people? Mom's pressure is to handle all sorts of children.
More feared is when the child doesn't know how to help mom. Not helping mom to cook, dirty dishes are left in the sink, homework all moms do.
Mom is like a maid, working to serve husband and children's will.
Mom is hardworking or lazy is not the reason, the important thing is that we have to teach our children to light bones and manners since we were young
So that when they grow up, they won't bother their partners. Especially the boys!
Son will be family priest someday. If the imam is in prayer, the reading must be correct, the prayer order must be correct, all about prayer must be perfect.
So is the family priest. Husband or father must show a good role model to wife and children, give the best education and have to be a leader that can be expected. Just built a perfect family.
Marriage is not a place for lazy or hardworking people.
Marriage is only for those who can work together and are willing to be together.
If you want to be sweet, let it be sweet together. Wife treat husband like king, husband treat wife like queen. Just fair.
Credit: Mohd FhaisTranslated
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