關於 what is the main idea of no talking ，我們在網路上蒐集到這些相關的討論、資訊與評價

真的好喜歡 Andrew Clements 的作品，之前已經介紹過 Frindle 和 No Talking，今次介紹的是 The Landry News，他創作的故事都是圍繞校園發生的，關於孩子的自主實驗學習和創作，也涉及掌權者（校長、老師）與被管治者（學生）之間的權力衝突。其實不只孩子，教育工作者閱後也有很多反思和得著。而這個 Landry News 最觸動我的是，Mr Karl Larson（老師）和 Cara Landry 以及整班小五學生透過出版學生報一起體驗言論與出版自由，以及探討自由的界限，最後一同經歷一場捍衛自由之戰。而我深知，香港學生不但沒有挑戰權威、反抗打壓的空間，其實自由創作的空間也一直縮小，而 Mr Larson 跟學生探討訂立法規之外，也需要 The Bill of Rights 去限制當權者的權力，作者提到的言論自由出版自由這部份，是很有啟發性，但也相當「反動」，會不會很快成為禁書呢？

Mr Larson 一步一步帶領學生思考，藉著第一份批評教師教學的校園報，著學生開始從不同的報章分析社評是 positive、negative、neutral，從而建立自己的方向：truth and mercy。透過研習報章的各個部份，明白合作的重要，然後成功鼓勵每一位學生都參與及投入其中。收到不同主題的提議、大量的投稿，作為 editor-in-chief 的 Cara 在選取內容時，反思自由的界限。最後，因為刊登了一篇關於父母離異的個人感受文章，讓校長藉詞指控 Mr Larson 缺乏專業判斷、違反個人私隱保障而開除教席，Mr Larson 卻竟然利用這事件與學生研習 The First Amendment to the Constitution of the United States，如何約束當權者權力而確保市民有言論自由、出版自由、和平集會權利等等。

“Now, this is the main idea I want you to get here. They made these ten original amendments even before anyone would agree to the Constitution itself. And the First Amendment is first for a reason. It promises that the government cannot get involved in religion – either for or against it. It promises that people are free to express their opinions and ideas – like that comedian last night. And it also says that there is freedom of the press, that government cannot decide what a newspaper is allowed or not allowed to print.“

最後學生反抗打壓，另外私下出版另一份叫 the Guardian 的校園報，把上述事件公開，引來社會很大的迴響。最後 Mr Larson 的紀律聆訊過程怎麼樣，結果如何，留待大家發掘，不過無論最後結局怎樣也好，學生透過捍衛言論與出版自由上了非常寶貴的一課，也與 Mr Larson 建立了深厚的師生感情。

閱後，除了深深給故事中自主、開明的教育方式感動外，也為香港倒退的教育政策感到哀痛。

原來蘋果日報也介紹過這書：https://hk.appledaily.com/family/20201005/A6OJJ2GGINDN5BVVGUIYDSAD4E/

#閱讀英文很重要
#擴闊視野與眼界
#開啟思考的鑰匙

I refuse to answer. The similar numbers have been calling me for a few days now. I know it’s Citibank telemarketers.

My phone rang again this morning. Decided to give whomever was working so hard a break.

As expected, a very nice lady on the other end of the line patiently explained my privilege as a card holder to sign up for an insurance policy AIA designed exclusively.

It took her 7 minutes to finish her script. Detailing out all main selling points, answering potential questions without me asking, laying down card holders option to cancel the policy after. I replied with some kind of sound from time to time so she won’t feel like she’s talking to the air.

When she finally was done, I gave her my answer. She didn’t sound surprise but have to ask for a reason.

I told her she did well. But I honestly couldn’t digest the information via a phone call like this. I want her to be clear about my message and feed it back to the management: it is very mind boggling to expect someone to be able to understand vital decision making information with a single call. I can’t see myself making a rational decision, hence all I can do is say no.

“It is not the way you delivered it, you did well. I just can’t work out everything I’ve been told just now, I don’t think it’s a smart way to sell a policy.” I said that with a smiling face, make sure she didn’t feel rejected.

And suddenly, I hear emotion in her tone. She smiled and thank me, briefly explain that’s her duty to make sure I as a cardholder get the opportunity and understand the benefit.

“You understand your are entitled such benefit as a cardholder, right?” She needed an affirmative answer. I realise that’s her KPI. Gladly answered “yes”, hoping that helps her a little even though she couldn’t close the deal.

I wished her better luck with her next call.

But why? Why would anyone think selling insurance policy via telemarketing is a good idea? Someone who hates telemarketers? It is designed for failure, a tiring and torturous failure.

I wonder what is the success rate. And what kind of customers they get, if any.

整理資料發現近兩年前去某國際研討會分享 #手天使 心得時的講稿，當時把我知道的議題面向都寫進去了。貼上來給有興趣的朋友。

[[slide page 1]]
Thank you for attending this part.
I'm from Hand Angel, a non-profit organization of Taiwan.

The title of my presentation is "As a sex worker and a sex volunteer",
since I'm both a sex worker, and also attending Hand Angel as a sex volunteer.

[[slide page 2]]
Allow me to introduce my organization more,
though you may know some from what Vincent has said in the morning.

Our main tenet is sexual rights to people with disabilities.

[[slide page 3]]
This includes not only orgasm, but also the right to control one's sexuality with autonomy and without discrimination.
People know us usually because we provide limited sexual service for servere physical or visual disabilities, including females.

Hand Angel is not a registered organization in Taiwan,
since we literally provide sexual service, which is considered against public order and morals.

However, we are still able to initiative our idea on the table
because our service are free, which means we actually do not violate any law.

[[slide page 4]]
In Taiwan, the definition of "sexual transaction" includes obscene acts in exchange for monetary,
which means it's considered transactional sex even there is no sexual intercourse.
And since transactional sex is technically illegal in Taiwan,
there's no legal way for us to charge anything by providing any service which may be considered obscenity.

This is much different in other countries.
In Japan, the law prohibiting sexual transaction only applies to intercourse between one male and one female. That's why White Hands and NOIR are able to provide paid handjob. The other reason is that they seem do not locate their service as sexual transaction. We can talk about this difference later.
And in Hong Kong, there's some way for sex workers not to be punished, which is called "one-woman brothel". So the difficulty for people with disabilities to satisfy their sexual desire would be different.

I, who has been a sex worker for years -- under the table, of course -- was invited to join Hand Angel at its very beginning.
[[slide page 5]]
People keep asking me that how a sex worker would think about a free sexual service.
But before that question, I think it's more important for us to know the difference other than money.
What's the difference between a classical transactional sex and our service?

As a sex worker, I hope my customers will come back to me more and more, as many times as they can pay.
But as a member of Hand Angel, I hope the servees would not need us anymore.
In fact, I hope they don't have to come to us at the very beginning.

The reason why people with disabilities may need sexual service, is the absence of sexual resource, the resource to fulfill one's sexual desire.

This is just like other issues of disabilities.
[[slide page 6]]
Just providing a service would not resolve the structural problem.

For example, if you give food to the poor without changing their situation, you would end up finding out that they're still poor.
Now change the "food" to "sex".
If we just give our own sex to those who barely have sexual resource, we'll end up exploiting ourselves, and their bad situation still remains.

The problem is, disabled people are considered abnormal, and they have been treated as no unnecessary needs.
But what is necessary for a person to live her own life instead of just survive?
In our issue, disabled people are usually considered asexual, and seldom sexy. That's the stigma we're going to break down.

[[slide page 7]]
There are some textures talking about disabled people in love and having sex, such as "Scarlet Road", "Sex on Wheels", and "The Sessions".
However, the narrative are usually based on ableism.
Viewers usually focus on how can the service provider "bear" to have sex with disabled people, instead of seeing the obstacles disabled people encounter.

[[slide page 8]]
A feminist has said that the relationship a disabled person has is considered depending on the compassion of the other person. People think their sexuality is disgusting and only saints are able to tolerate it.

So we can see the problem is not only physical obstacles, but also how we think about intimate relationship a disabled person deserves.

[[slide page 9]]
Does Hand Angel care about intimate issue? The answer is yes.
In our service, we provide not only sexual service. Our target is not the physical orgasm, but the infinite opportunity of their own lives.
Here are two examples.

[[slide page 10]] Little Prince
Since this servee can sense nothing below his waist, a classical handjob would be meaningless.
Fortunately, we have a BDSM queen in our team.
She thought of techniques in SM to check how pain it is to the slave, and use the same trick to check how the servee's body can feel.
I have to emphasize: that was not a medical treatment, that was about communication with each other.
They were talking about the feeling of two people, instead of the body of one person.
The whole process relies on the intimacy between the sex volunteer and the servee.

[[slide page 11]] ND
"Strolling" for him was from his room to the front door of his home.
Uh, I'm not talking about he lives in a big house.
Though using an electric wheelchair, ND's finger was not powerful enough to control the device for more than 10 minutes,
which means going out alone is not possible for him.
But after applying for our service, he trained himself to "walk" longer.
Even after our service, we were told that he kept trying to leave home and meet other friends.

Another servee has tried other entertainment such as snorkeling and paragliding after our service.
He's having a more plentiful life than before, and even than me.

[[slide page 12]]
In these cases, we can see that:
First, physical orgasm is not the only purpose of a sexual service.
Secondly, libido, or desire for sexual activity, is a strong energy for people to live.

There's a continuing question for us: People can still live without sex.
[[slide page 13]]
What's so important for disabled people to have sex?
Well, I think sex is probably not important for those who can have sex easily, but the impossibility to sex or intimacy may deny the self-esteem of a person.
Sex is an important reason for most people to make friends. So on the other hand, once a person is forced to abandon the opportunity to have sex, she (or he) might lose the energy to social activities. And that's not good for mental health.

[[slide page 14]] The 3 aspects we care about
First, physical orgasm. This is not only about sex organ, but also those come from your erogenous zone.
The problem is not only that people don't know how to interact with disabled people during sex,
but also that people do not want to know how the sex would be for people with different disabilities.

Second, intimacy. The right to have a satisfying date is also important.
Let's imagine, what if a couple of lovers want to kiss each other while seeing movie in a theater, but one of them is in wheelchair so their positions are actually separated?

Third, social integration. Many people with disabilities don't have enough opportunity to make close friends. One of the reasons is that other people usually don't know how to react with disabled people. Therefore, education is important.

[[slide page 15]] Gender Equity Education
In Taiwan, gender equity education comprises 3 parts: affective education, sex education, and gay and lesbian education.
Though I also want to introduce the situation that the conservative group is raising a proposal of referendum to forbid gay and lesbian education, but that's not the issue here so I have to skip that. I hope people who are interested in Taiwan may notice that same-sex marriage is not the only issue about gender equity.

Uh, back to disability rights movement.
As an organization which cares both gender issue and disability issue, we note that even open-minded gender activists may ignore the existence of people with disabilities.
Gender equity education is never designed or applied in the point of view of the disabled.
For example, there are some materials for teaching safe sex, but people seldom think about how a blind person should know before she (or he) masturbate or have sex.

We have a servee who once masturbated in the bathroom of his home, but couldn't clean up since not knowing where his semen reached during ejaculation, and therefore shocked his sister who later used the bathroom.
And another friend bought an artificial vagina in a sex toy store. But he didn't even know he have to erect before insertion.

[[slide page 16]] female servee
People caring about gender equity keep question us: why is there only one female servee during these 5 years after our foundation?
Well, we think the answer is complicated. But the most important one is: how difficult for a female to "confess" she has sexual desire?
We all know about "slut shaming", and those terms to humiliate females by their sexuality -- such as "bitch" and "whore".
It's difficult even for able-bodied females to state their sex experience and preference.
Then it's even more difficult for disabled females to think what she herself wants.

But before sexual activity with other people, disabled females don't even know their body well.
The only female servee we have, told us she has never seen or touched her own vagina.
So we also hosted some conferences and speeches to discuss about such situation of disabled females.

[[slide page 17]] Androcentrism
This is an important issue for us. And I think it's important for those who care about sexual health of disabled people.
Though there are some textures talking about sexual desires of disabled females. To provide sexual service or even sex education to them is barely seen.
I have to admit that, even though there are more and more female members joining us, androcentrism is still not easy to get over.

[[slide page 18]] limitations
Hand Angel provides service to those with servere physical or visual disabilities.
So here comes a frequently asked question: what about others?
The main difficulty for us is that we don't know enough about the situation of other disabilities.
Of course we know that people with other disabilities also don't have enough sexual resources,
but we ourselves do not have enough resources to share, either.
That's why we also hope other people to compose other similar organization.

Meanwhile, there are some people we cannot help because of law.
Adolescents are the ones I myself care about most,
since male teenagers have overwhelming sexual desire, and that would be hell for those with upper limb disability.

However, there are always laws prohibiting youths to have sex in every country.
[[slide page 19]]
In Taiwan, it is legal to have sexual activity after 16. No matter it's intercourse or not.
But even for an organization providing free service like us, the member who communicate with sex volunteer and the servee would be punished as a broker if the servee is younger than 18.
Actually, we do have an applier who mailed us about his desire when he was 15. What we can do is tell him to wait 3 more years.

Unfortunately, being an adult does not mean your right to sex is permitted.
[[slide page 20]]
People with intellectual disability or mental disorder are also infantilized, treated as babies or angels, and considered asexual.
The dilemma is similar to what teenagers have. Their consents are not considered valid.
That is frustrating. The law to protect them from sexual violence also tortures them.

[[slide page 21]] Acrotomophilia and devotees
While talking about disabled people in love or having sex, this is also an issue we should mention.
Some people worry about that devotees are just trying to dominate or take control of the disabled people.
This is similar to MacKinnon's dominance theory and male supremacy.
Devotees are considered to have more power in the relationship, and thus disabled people have a lack of autonomy.

I think that's a stigma, too.
The dominance theory does not deny free love. It focuses on the power issue.
Thus, the problem lies still on the absence of resources disabled people deserve.
Slanders on devotees are based on the prejudice that disabled people are never sexy,
and that denies the possibility for disabled people to have plentiful sexual activity.
The whole society shall support disabled people to have their own autonomy in their relationship.

[[slide page 22]] Difficulties
Usually, people would understand sexual desire of disabled people.
But to support it publicly is another story, especially for the organizations relying on donations.
There are some social workers and parents telling us that they want to do something to help their cases and family,
but it is still an issue which could not be spoken.
It's never been easy for us to talk about sex on the table, but it should be done.
Even for those who don't agree with the idea of sexual service, I do hope you could at least support disabled people to talk about their sex and romance.

[[slide page 23]]
This ends my report. Thank you for listening.
I'm Kong, a sex volunteer of Hand Angel from Taiwan.

【モラトリアムコレクション 第3弾！】

「迎えにきてよピーターパン」
“Take me to Neverland”

　texture : スレイフィズ(ソフトスノー)
飾り : 逃げ出したい現実を切り裂く剣🗡、魔法の粉（金ラメ）
香り : 青リンゴ🍏
サイズ : 8oz
　価格 : 1650円

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このスライムは６月６日日曜日の２１時からの「モラトリアムコレクション」で、BASEにて販売します！ 詳細は概要欄や今後公開される動画でご確認ください♪

0:00 〜 OP

0:30 〜 本編開始　
the beginning of the main part

0:50 〜 触り始め　
begin to touch

1:21 〜 容器から出す　
take out of a container

1:25 〜 片手で触る　
touch with one hand

1:38 〜 両手でガッツリ遊ぶ　
play with both hands

5:40 〜 あたたたたたたいむ
mochiyo beam

5:45 〜 もこもこテクスチャーで遊ぶ
play with a fluffy texture

6:55 〜 もこもこにして容器に還元　
fluff up and return to the container

7:01 〜 もこもこしゅわしゅわ
fluffy & sizzly

7:38 〜 もこもこしゅわしゅわ　おすすめ！
fluffy & sizzly

9:45 〜 もこもこしゅわしゅわ　おすすめ！
fluffy & sizzly

10:56 〜 もこもこしゅわしゅわ　おすすめ！
fluffy & sizzly

【日本語 Japanese】
逃げ出したい現実を切り裂く剣です。
頭から被ればガンギマる魔法の粉(言い方)もつけておきますね！

このスライムはピーターパン症候群からヒントを得て思いつきました。
でも、名前の通り、このスライムの主人公はピーターを待つモブです。

この主人公モブは、もちろんモラトリアム期にある若者です。
彼はとても真面目な性格で、常に「ちゃんとしなきゃ！」と思っています。
責任感が強いので、嫌なことにも基本的には正面から向き合います。
だから、本当は大人になりたくないけれど、息を止めて前に進みます。

しかし、ある時彼の本能が音をあげました。

「もう辛い！自分のことを知る人間が誰もいない場所へ逃げ出したい！」
「誰でもいいから僕のことをさらってくれよ！」

そんな切実すぎる現実逃避を想って作ったスライムです。

皆様にも、時には現実から逃げたくなることがあると思います。
でも、そんな時に本当にピーターが迎えにきてくれることはないですよね。
だから、代わりに私がこのスライムで皆様を非現実へと誘いたいです。

このスライムはソフトタイプのプラスチックスノーを使った柔らかい触り心地のスノーフィズスライムです。
机にしっかり張り付き、よく伸びます。
薄めの膜が張って、小気味のいい軽い音が楽しめます。
ハードのスノーに引けを取らない音の鳴りやすさです。
手離れもとても良くてベタつきません。
もちよすらいむ史上1番ノンストレスなフィズに仕上がりました。
刺激はほぼ無いのに、凸凹している手触りも心地いいと思われます。
個人的にすごくお気に入りのレシピです！

このスライムを触っている間は子供に戻れるおまじないをかけておきます。
是非とも精神世界のネバーランドへトリップしてください！(言い方)

香りは甘くてフルーティーな青リンゴです！

アタタタタタタタァァッッ！！

空気を含むとジュワジュワしてきます。
触り方によってはシュワシュワも守備範囲内です。
長い動画ですが、是非最後の方までお楽しみください！
概要欄にのせたチャプターも是非ご利用ください！

このスライムは我々のことをどこまでも甘やかしてくれます。
皆様の穏やかな日々に少しでも貢献できますように。

【英語 English】
A sword that cuts through the reality you want to escape.
It is a magic powder that makes you happy if you sprinkle it on your head.

This slime was inspired by Peter Pan Syndrome.
But the main character of this slime is a mob waiting for Peter.

This mob is, of course, a young man in the Moratorium.
He has a very diligent personality and always thinks "I have to do my best!"
He basically doesn't run away from what he doesn't want to do.
So he doesn't really want to be adult, but he tries to get a job.

But one day his instinct reached its limit.

"I want to escape to a place where no one knows me!"
"Someone, take me away!"

I made this slime with the idea of serious escapism.

I think there are times when you all want to escape from reality too.
But at that time, Peter doesn't really come to pick us up.
So, instead of him, I invite you to unreality with this slime.

This slime is a soft-touch snow fizz slime that contains soft plastic snow.
It sticks well to the desk and stretches well.
With a thin film, you can enjoy a nice and light sound.
It is as easy to make bubble sounds as hard snow.
It is easy to peel off from your hands and is not sticky.
It is the most stress-free fizz in the history of mochiyo slime.
It's not tingling, but it's also bumpy to the touch.
Personally, this is my favorite recipe!

This slime has the magic of being able to return to the child while touching it.
Let's take a trip to the spiritual world of Neverland!

The scent is a sweet and fruity green apple!

Hissatsu! Mochiyo Beam!!!!

If it contains air, it will make a sizzly sound.
If you inflate it fluffy, you can hear more more sizzly sounds.
It's a long video, but please enjoy it till the end!
Please use the chapters listed in description!

This slime pampers us perfectly.
I hope this slime will help you in your peaceful days.

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サブチャンネル【もちよの研究室】はコチラ！
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イヤフォンやヘッドフォンをして聴いて頂くとよりいい音で楽しめるかとおもいますので、是非に😎

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どうもこんびんは！
もちよすらいむです🧜🏻‍♀️

有名なスライマーさんのスライムのレビューや、自分で作ったスライムの動画などのASMRを中心に、いろいろなジャンルの動画を上げていきたいと思います！

太古の動画や、short ver.の動画、編集実況などは全てインスタグラムのアカウントの方にあります。インスタライブでスライムを触ったりもします。

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＊自室にて、マイクを使って撮影してます！ですが、多少は「サーー」というホワイトノイズが入っています。また、稀ですが実家ぐらしなので家族の出す生活音が入ってしまう可能性があります。そういったものが苦手な方にも、ご視聴非推奨です🙇‍♀️

＊動画を見てくださりありがとうございます💕そしてこの概要を最後まで読んでくださりありがとうございます💕

是非チャンネル登録をして、これからももちよの動画をお楽しみください💁‍♀️

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Amarante - The Manic
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