Wajib merancang dan menghadkan jumlah anak jika:
- anda tak mampu nak sediakan bilik yg cukup dan selesa utk anak2. mengasingkan anak2 lelaki dan perempuan.
- anda tak mampu nak beli pakaian yg elok2 utk anak2 anda.
- anda tak mampu beli makanan yg berkhasiat dan elok2 utk anak2 anda. (real food)
-duit bersalin isteri pun tak mampu nak bayar. Tiada kenderaan yg selesa dan slmt utk bawa semua anak.
-kerja anda main Game siang malam pagi petang
- anda tak boleh nak redhakan emosi anak anda yg paling kecik utk terima adik baru... Semua bini buat, laki buat donno, menangislah anak itu minta didukung dan anda tak mampu nak dukung sebb berpantang dan dilarang oleh org tua.
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- anda tak mampu beri pendidikan terbaik utk anak2. anak2 minta beli pencel colour 26 batang pun tak mampu. nak kertas warna pun tak mampu.
-hari hari gaduh laki bini pasal duit
-kerap sgt pinjam duit mak bapak/mertua/adik beradik/kawan2 sampai org dah nampak true color laki bini
-emosi ke laut, asyik.jadi rimau aje ngan anak2😂
-hubungan dgn Tuhan berantakan
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hak merancang dan menghad bilangan anak adalah HAK ISTERI. Ustaz pernah pesan, tak perlu minta izin suami pun kalau suami mmg sejenis tak membantu dan selfish, sampai biarkan bini pregnant setahun 2x...sebab ISTERI yg membawa perut ke sana ke MARI. pertaruh nyawa, risiko mati, tumpah darah dan banyak lg. Belum masuk bab menyusukan, bab penjagaan pantang, emosi dan financial...bagilah mereka berehat selama yg mereka mahu. sehingga mereka bersedia. suami perlu dimaklumkan dan tolong bersetuju. positif dan empati.
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lahirkanlah anak2 yg berkualiti. bukan semata2 bangga dgn kuantiti tp anak lepas kt mak bapak dan mertua suruh jaga. jgn kerana anak ramai berderet, menyebabkan depress..anak2 jadi mangsa marah2 hingga tercalar emosinya kerana anak tu tak minta lahir ke dunia, anda da buat tlglah jaga amanah tu sebaiknya!
siapa yg penyabar dan mampu utk menyediakan kelengkapan di atas...teruskan la punya anak2 yg ramai. kpd yg tidak mampu, jgn la membawang mereka...keluarga mereka hak mereka. tak perlu campurtgn hal keluarga mereka. plan lah jumlah keluarga masing2..jgn sibuk plan kan keluarga org lain
Ingat, anak anak bukan semata mata rezeki tp AMANAH. Rezeki pun bukan turun dr langit terus tp perlu dicari, di ikhtiar. Stop serahkan semua konon ketentuan tp takde usaha utk perbaiki kualiti dan ekonomi hidup.
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Must plan and limit the number of children if:
- you can't afford to prepare a room that is enough and comfortable for your children. Separate your sons and daughters.
- you can't afford to buy good clothes for your children.
- you can't afford to buy food that is nutritious and good for your children. (real food)
- even the wife's delivery money can't afford to pay. There is no comfortable vehicle and safe to bring all children.
- your work play Game day night morning evening evening evening
- you can't lessen your child's emotions that are the smallest to accept a new sibling... All wives do, men do donno, cry the child is asking for support and you can't afford to support because of abstinence and forbidden by
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- you can't afford to give the best education for your children. the children ask to buy pencil color 26 bars can't afford it. Even the color paper can't afford it.
- every day fighting husband and wife about money
- often borrow money from parents / in-laws / siblings / friends, until they see the true color of husband and wife
- emotion to the sea, fun. Becoming a tiger with the kids anak2😂
- relationship with God is messy
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The right to plan and limit the number of children is the RIGHT OF WIFE. Ustaz has ordered, no need to ask for husband's permission if the husband is a kind of person who doesn't help and selfish, until he let his wife get pregnant a year 2 x... because the WIFE is the one who brings Betting life, risk of death, blood spilling and more. Haven't entered the breastfeeding chapter, abstinence, emotions and financial care... let them rest as long as they want. until they are ready. Husband needs to be informed and please agree. Positive and empathy.
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Give birth to quality children. Not just proud of the quantity but the child after parents and in-laws asked to take care of them. Don't be because many children are in line, causing depressing.. children become victims of anger until their emotions are scratched because the child doesn't ask to be born into the world, you have done it, please take care
Whoever is patient and able to prepare the equipment above... continue to have many children. To those who can't afford it, don't gossip about them... their family is their right No need to intervention with their family matters. Plan the amount of family.. don't be busy planning other people's family
Remember, children are not just sustenance but TRUST. Provisions don't come down from the sky but need to be found, in the endeavor. Stop giving up all the conditions but there's no effort to improve the quality and economy of life.
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