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Here’s a hard truth for anyone looking to move to Denmark.
Danes do not want to be your friends. This probably comes off harsh, but allow me to explain.
Most Danes don’t focus a lot on befriending new people. We’ve already gotten to know some very close friends, usually during our education or first jobs or sports activities. We are not particularly welcoming to strangers, and as such, most people view as cold and distant.
But it’s a misunderstanding to think that all Danes simply hate foreigners or anything strange. They don’t. Rather, what they hate is being superficially friendly. Danes won’t pretend to be your friend. They won’t pretend to care what your day is like or how your doing, except if it’s required of them in the service industry.
They won’t greet you on the street and they won’t initiate eye contact. They won’t approach you or start up a conversation, unless they’re drunk, which, fortunately, is a lot of the time.
But if you get to know them steadily over a longer period of time, they will be very close and appreciative friends.
--Original : Linus Skov
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eye contact in conversation 在 Annur Syuhadah Facebook 的最佳貼文
Child psychologist and Behavioral Management🙇 To all parents and even grandparents, as well as teachers, here are some unnbelievably simple parenting ideas that work.👇
1. Children need a minimum of eight touches during the day to feel connected to a parent.
If they’re going through a particularly challenging time, it’s a minimum of 12 a day. This doesn’t have to be a big deal; it could be the straightening of a collar, a pat on the shoulder or a simple hug.
2. Each day, children need one meaningful eye-to-eye conversation with a parent.
It is especially important for babies to have that eye contact, but children of all ages need us to slow down and look them in the eyes.
3. There are nine minutes during the day that have the greatest impact on a child:
the first three minutes right after they wake up
the three minutes after they come home from school
the last three minutes of the day before they go to bed
We need to make those moments special and help our children feel loved.
These are simple, right? Nothing really earth-shattering here.
Try it.
1⃣ Whenever u feel like scolding or beating your child, take a deep breath, or count 1-10 and then act.
2⃣ Let's ask them to study their favorite subject on their own..
3⃣ Send them to one exam without studying at all..
4⃣ Remember what our kids are learning in 5th std is taught to 7th std abroad..
5⃣ Lets keep our kids out of unwanted competition.
6⃣ 80% of what kids are learning ,won't be useful to them in future..
7⃣ Our kids can really afford to do whatever they want to do in future .
8⃣ Higher degrees don't guaranty success and happiness..
9⃣ Not all the highly educated people do well professionally.
And not all who do well professionally are the happiest ones..
🔟 Kids are always in a party mood.. don't spoil their childhood. Support and let them be what they want to be. 👍😃
Pass this on to as many teachers and parents as u can..
And change the way we look at our kids and their future.
eye contact in conversation 在 Hannah Tan Facebook 的最佳貼文
Tag your #bff ❤️Social Skills That Will Make You #Successful In Every Aspect Of Life
1. Speak Less, Ask More
One of the most important #social #skills you can develop is the ability to ask questions; not in an interrogating way, but in the way that will help you understand people better & strengthen your #relationship with them. People love talking about themselves, so asking questions that trigger #memories (i.e. “What was it like for you when…?”) or cause them to give their opinion (i.e. “What do you think about…?”) will put you in the driver’s seat by allowing them to be the center of the conversation.
2. Make Eye Contact
Making #eyecontact with the person you are speaking with #facetoface is an outward expression that you are fully engaged with that person.
3. Show #Positive #Body Language
Keep yr head up, shoulders back & chest out. How you carry yourself can impact how you #think & feel about yourself.
4. Praise People’s Strengths
Giving praise to someone else is a sign of #confidence on yr part & a tremendous confidence builder for the other person, a great way to bring out the best in them.
5. Smile More
Research shows the #confident people smile more. I’m not saying walk around with a beaming #smile from ear-to-ear at all times–that’s creepy. #Smiling at others will trigger the mirror neurons in their #brain to smile back at you–it’s contagious.
6. Say Nothing
Sometimes people don’t need to hear yr opinion. The next time you want to chime in and give empirical data supporting your side of an argument, stop & ask yourself the question, “Do I want to be #happy, or do I want to be right?” More times than not, being happy means conceding the argument & enjoying the #company of others.
7. Focus On The Bright Side Of Things
Refuse to be that person who transmits negativity through yr #family, #friends & coworkers by complaining all the time. Instead, be that person who can look at the bright side of a difficult situation & keep tough times in perspective. This doesn’t mean to be unrealistic & overly-positive, it means to be that person who can look adversity in the face & #focus on what you can control.
-From lifehack.org #Success #Sunday
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Five Ways to Improve Your Listening Skills
Maintain eye contact
It shows others that you are paying attention.
Match their eye contact to not be creepy.
Some people love eye contact. Others prefer to look away from time to time. Depends on the other party
Another way to show that you are listening is to lean in with your ear
Take Notes
This will reinforce your memory. It’s advisable to ask permission first in some situations.
This is good for when you meet someone more successful than you.
Ask: Do you mind if I take notes?
Shows respect and makes them feel valued.
Allow people to finish their own sentences
No matter how enthusiastically you want to jump into the conversation.
Doing so will indicate respect for what the person is saying.
Let them finish their sentence and then ask. Would you like my feedback?
Is what you have to say more important to the person speaking?
Respond so the other person knows you’re listening.
Your response maybe “Yes” or “I see” or merely nodding your head. Any of these will do.
I see where you are coming from
That is profound
I wish I could do what you do
Ask core questions.
That is typically a series of “why” questions that go deeper into a particular subject to gain the greatest understanding of a situation. Start with broad information and continue seeking more specific responses.
Ask core questions – So you don’t get a yes or no answer
Why is that important? How can I help?
What’s preventing you from moving forward?
Asking them profound questions. Questions shift belief/change lives.
These may seem simple but complexity is the enemy of execution. If you think these sound like common sense, first ask yourself “How many people do you know that do all this? How would it transform your life if you did?” If you do it, you will stand out. People will like you but they won’t know why. It’s subconscious.
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